Is it pretentious of the bride and groom to have a different meal than their guests?

At our wedding, each of our guests is getting a 6 oz steak and chicken breast. I'm a vegan, so I will probably have pasta and tofu or something animal friendly like that. And my fiance thought he would just get a larger cut of steak and skip the chicken for himself. My parents think we are saying we're better than everyone else by eating something different. I say, it's OUR DAY! And besides, it's not like, we're feeding our guests the fried chicken and mashed potatoes buffet ya know? Any thoughts?